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| Edith Wright... |
 Posted: Thu Jul 23, 2009 2:48 am |
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Today I am travelling to visit my youngest son in California. We do
this trip a couple of times each year to pick him up, take him home or
simply to visit. Something strikes me though: is there such a thing as
a good flight? I have travelled on most major airlines. But nothing
ever seems to go to plan. The lines are long. They always manage to
mess up your ticket or seats...or something. Besides the fact that I
hate flying, I HATE flying. Not a good situation when you live in one
country and have family in another. Of course now is the time that
many people are preparing to travel either for Spring Break or
planning their summer holidays. So how does flying rank in terms of
the Frugal Fam core values?
Family first. I must give flying high marks in this category. It is
highly unlikely that hubby and I would have met and married were it
not for relatively cheap air travel. And of course, it is a complete
life saver in terms of my relationship with my son and other family in
the USA. On the other hand, travelling with young children is a
complete and total nightmare...almost every time. When I remember the
road trips we would take as a family, even the litany of 'are we there
yet's' cannot compare to the simple option of pulling over for awhile
to let the children run and play. Unfortunately, air planes offer very
little in way of stops.
Save money. This is probably the biggest reason why the road trip
became such a family favourite. What family of four can afford to fly
when it is much cheaper to drive to any destination? Even including
some meals and hotels, the road trip is often more economical than
flying. And who can forget the 'fun' of the actual trip such as
depicted in American Lampoon's Family Vacation. Of course, Christie
Brinkley better stay away from my hubby.
Environmentally friendly. Don't be fooled flying is one of the worst
polluters, because the planes emissions are going into the upper
atmosphere where their effects are compounded. Of course, airlines try
to sell you trees to 'offset' your travel, but this is not a proven
technique to compensate for your emissions. It is more about making
you feel less guilty about flying so you will do it more.
Healthier. There can be health effects of flying as well. In addition
to air quality issues and the ease of spreading germs in such tight
quarters, there can also be problems in terms of blood circulation. On
very long flights such as mine from London to Los Angeles, there is
the risk of blood clots developing...perhaps even life threatening.
If it seems that I am a bit anti-flying that is because our flight was
one of the worst. That does not change the fact that all the points I
have made are true. But for our family with members in two different
countries, flying is an unfortunate necessity. The family friendly
trumps all other values as I said would sometimes happen. Do I feel
guilty about the damage I am causing the environment? You bet I do.
But until we are once again are on the same continent, we have no
other viable choices. In complete honesty, I am probably such a
stickler about the 3R's because I am so aware of the damage that
families like ours are doing.
But if you have a choice, the best alternative to meet all the Frugal
Fam core values is road trips close to home. The family vacation we
took most of my life are prime examples. We lived in upstate South
Carolina and almost every year we spent a week in Charleston. It was
about a three to four hour drive, which for fighting siblings is just
about the perfect limit. A couple of years, we instead went to
Gatlinburg, Tennessee; a slightly longer drive but still relatively
close. The notable exception was our infamous trip to Washington, DC.
It reminds me of flying, because basically anything that could go
wrong...did.
Of course, the pity is that many of us live in what others would
consider ideal vacation spots, yet we take them for granted. When was
the last time that you truly explored your city? Could you not save
the hotel and travel costs by vacationing at home? Pretending you are
a tourist in your own home...and rediscover the beauty of the place
you live.
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